When I know that I am going to have sex with a woman for the very first time, I’ll make sure that she climaxes first.
Do you want to know how to seduce her? You have to believe that you’re the best lover that she will ever have. With every woman I’ve have ever slept with, I have always believed that I will be her best lover — period.
The First Kiss
The first kiss is nothing more than a peck on the lips, then pulling back and making direct eye contact with her. When I do finally kiss her, I always feel out and match her kissing style. I’ll make sure that my tongue moves just the way her tongue moves, whether it’s hard or soft, a bit rough, or more reserved and gentle. This way she feels like she’s actually being kissed by a guy who is in tune with her.
When I touch her, I do so very slowly, and I pay close attention to detail. It’s all about the seduction process. The slower I seduce and the more patient I am, the more she’s going to open up sexually. I always make sure that her pleasure comes first.
When I know that I am going to have sex with a woman for the very first time, I’ll make sure that she climaxes first. I’ll usually go down on her, then I’ll look up at her as I am going down and ask her how she likes it. Faster or slower? More pressure? Are you enjoying it? It’s for her pleasure, but a lot of it is because I’ve got my ego, too. I want to learn everything that turns her on.
Stop being selfish
Most guys will never get there. Why? Because most guys are selfish. Most guys are what I call “pumpers and dumpers.” They go, they pump themselves into her, they dump their load, and they don’t care about her pleasure. When you care about her pleasure and you can express that, the sky is the limit.